There are several occasions in which I have received a lot of insistence for practicing anal sex (in my anus, of course).

And, from time to time, I have proposed to the boy in question to also try for his and thus experience together that incredible pleasure that he sold me.

However, his rejection was blunt . He reacted as if his anus was some kind of mystical zone where the entry of any article, or part of the body, was almost a sacrilege towards his person.

What was quite a surprise when, a little later, I learned that it is precisely from behind where men have countless nerve endings that are the direct route to orgasm (without transhipment or anything).

In the case of women, the theme of the points is almost like an alphabet . Give me a letter and I’ll tell you which body part (supposedly) you’re going to climax with.

As Valérie Tasso , a sexologist and Lelo.com ambassador, says, “points appear like mushrooms. What if the G point, the U, the A, etc»

There are so many that, as she herself suggests, “when the letters run out, we can do like the license plates and put numbers” .

Theirs, on the other hand, is simpler, more direct and, even with everything, less well known: Point P , which would be its equivalent.

But why that particular area with how easy it was to get to the genitals? What is it about Point P that gives so much pleasure, but still costs so much to enjoy? The expert solves it for us.

What exactly is stimulated?
The prostate, a male gland located inside the pelvic area under the bladder and in front of the rectum and is between about 3 to 5 cm entering the anus. Its size is similar to that of a walnut and its anatomical shape is reminiscent of a chestnut. Its primary function is, as in the train tracks, the ‘change of needle’, to decide which of the conduits that cross it has preference for passage to the urethra; if the one that allows the man to urinate or the one that allows the expulsion of semen (try a man to ejaculate and pee at the same time and you will see what I mean…).

It also depends on her that, with her contractions (which in this case are orgasmic), the semen is propelled to the urethra. A good pelvic floor allows you to press the prostate at will to maintain control over ejaculation. It also plays a major role in the production of liquid that contributes, together with the sperm produced by the testicles (which is barely 2% of what is ejaculated) and other seminal fluids.

Why does that area give pleasure?
It is the organ that intervenes first in the male orgasm. And because it’s lined with nerve endings, the prostate provides sensations that range from good to really intense when massaged or stimulated. When a man is about to have an orgasm, the first thing that ‘goes on’ is the prostate and, in a matter of half a second, the ejection of semen. In other words, men’s orgasms, even if they don’t know it, happen in two stages: 1) prostate contractions and then 2) ejaculation. The difficulty of noticing these two times is because between moments 1 and 2 there is very little time. And there are not a few men who are unaware of how their orgasmic process works.

How to stimulate it?
The stimulation of the prostate can be done in two possible ways: either from the inside by entering the anus (with the fingers, or with a prostate massager or also directly with anal sex by your partner) or by pressing with the fingers or some … Read the rest